Monthly Archives: November 2011

My First Clue…

my first clue was the electric scooter… form of therapy i use regularly is my honda 50cc metropolitan scooter, fat fenders, blue flowered, 100 mpg., top speed 40 mph. wind therapy is what every 2 wheeler understands… i had my first on a mini bike on the gulf coast of Mississippi behind Willie Guice Smith, III at the age of five. bicycling, boarding of all kinds, play in all forms. Physical expression of joy, play reconnects us to the milk of human kindness.  after 5 years of scooting all around the Antelope Valley this neighbor  appears on an electric scooter  SWEET!  who is this neighbor?  and then the magic moment of Jim Greenleaf being present when i scooted up that workday in January….


“i’m Jim Greenleaf and i keep it real”  is how he approached me.  seizing the opportunity is how i would describe him, maximizing the opportunity, offering me a video promoting my small private massage practice i call Avalon. keeping it real is the epitome of daily spiritual practice and this guy claims it, speaks it. i had no idea who he was so stop there sparky…..authenticity and confidence is most attractive in us humans (far from perfect, way above average) and i had to know more about him….he offered me eternity from the first moment and our journey was activated by the Sacred Yes in that moment.  beyond the falling in love is the staying in love…Jim’s mission statement as Santa on (google it :))  is how i trust his pure heart.  “stepping towards life” is what i hear him say many times a day…


it has taken me 52 years to fully embrace my own path, my destiny and to be given this divine companion is bonus upon bonus.  Love is ever expanding us and it humbles me to share the tenderness of our togetherness….surrender and merge, melt like snow.    keeping it real, marva














Toy Soldiers – 1984 Long Before YOUNG LOVE AFTER FIFTY

Long before I met Marva. I was an actor in Hollywood. I Co-Starred in this movie in 1984. We spent 2 months in the jungle of Mexico. I played  Mary Beth Even’s Boy friend. I was a party! Jason Miller who was writing the screen play, “That Championship Season”, would drive down the back streets and he would holler out the jeep, “malta,malta”, which met weed. Out of the darkness someone would appear and takes down an alley and sell us a big bag of pot. Every night we would party in the street with the locals.

Life’s memories are not the same if you don’t have a life partner to share it with. We have created an us and Marva and I will be married under the stars in Death Valley at Delights Hot Springs 01.01.2012.

You see, I have been alone and personally shut down for over 30 years, until one day I made eye contact and looked deep into her eyes and fell totally in love for the first time in my life. Marva tried to fight with God for four months. 

She worked next door at Avalon Recovery I own the BlvdToday Cafe. We would see each other everyday. I knew she was very interested in me because out of the blue she would come over sit with my on the Cafe patio and out of the blue would leading questions like, “So Jim, what is your relationship with water ?”. Now we’re getting married in the water. 

Young love after fifty is of greater valve to this 55 year old than being 20 something on  a wild ride in Mexico. 

Marva you are everything I need, want and desire.

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